LONELINESS
I have realised that one can be lonely when one is all alone or even in a crowded room
The most common loneliness is when one is all alone But it is not all the time that one feels lonely in this circumstances. There are some days when I do not get a single phone call nor does the door bell ring. & also some days I just want to be this way & do not bother to call anyone too I am my own company,& I have started to like it though the dogs are around I feel like putting them outside & be on my own!!It feels like getting away from a child who needs attention all the time & a little time alone itself is a respite & relaxation.
I keep the TV on just to feel someone is around & on other times this is not needed.somehow the day /night pattern goes on smoothly without even thinking of how the day will go.
All this is is ones own attitude -to look at things one wants to see.the way things are at that particular moment of time.to feel self pity or to be elated.All is in our own hands.The way we deal with everyday problems which are small or big the way we look at it
even the most terrible ones look small with time & our attitude can make us laugh at them or despise them.
we should live life as fully as we can Taking each step sometimes with seriousness & sometimes with abundance But should learn to differentiate the trivial from the serious ones We may think we do not need anyone;s help but in reality living in a family/society one does need help.Whether we like it or not. But I always depend on myself for most of the things -this is my experience But this is not to say I do not need anyone .I also very much depend & believe on the SUPREME POWER above He has NEVER FAILED me. Yes there has been many dark clouds thunder & lightning but in the end there has always been calmness to rejoice Every cloud has a silver lining --very very true Just like the darkness will ALWAYS bring light after a few long hours Night has to be followed by day as day has to be followed by night This is the circle/cycle of life .take it or leave it
It is wise to take it the sweet/bitter spicy/hot /cold of life