10/03/2014
LIFE IS FULL OF SURPRISES
Yes surprises good ,bad, ok-sort of easily forgettable, deeply piercing ones very being & shattering beyond words
We all have sometime or other gone through this emotions of surprises.
A sudden death of a near one-usually is a bad surprise -never thought of.We are at a loss as to what to say & do .If we are at a geographical distance & cannot rush to the home of this person What should we do
Call -may be one will not get a reply as the bereaved persons phone must be continuously engaged or busy The age of sending a telegram is no more Nor it is the email period But does the person concerned has this facility? of a laptop/computer? Many times the answer is NO
what to do next -well keep of calling till you get in . It is always nice to visit personally to convey your condolence from the bottom of the heart & very sincerely there will be many people around in Happy times But times like these many may come on the first day then the numbers keep dribbling I believe one should visit more often after the first few days-just ones presence is enough for comfort
Just keeping mum & make the bereaved person talk takes a lot off the persons chest -to feel better.
this is i feel more important for the persons left behind to adjust life without the dear person just lost for ever.
the loneliness takes it own time to fill up but it does .
A birth -a new life coming in to this world is also such a sweet happy feeling whether it is your own family or friends -this gives a wonderful feeling Be it we have become aunt Uncle, elder sisters or brothers or grand parents this warm feeling remains & increases as we can watch the new arrival grow up, & specially -growing up seems so fast in No time the helpless baby is turning over ,crawling, sitting up/standing ,walking & finally running around & in no time starts schooling too How time really flies!!!
Birth- when your dog whelps & pups coming in to this world-Oh i thing there is no sweeter & warm & happy experience Specially when dog treats you nas her special savior & trust you enough to allow you to take care of her pups & handle them & allows nobody else come near them Oh you feel so privileged as your dog trusts only !! what a nice feeling & bring a satisfied 'smug' on the face to say 'look here -I AM the chosen & trusted one!! '
when we read about ghastly accidents cars, trains, busses & aeroplanes & so many lives being snuffed out our heart goes out to all those unknown people & their families & wonder how can they bear such a tragic loss Also a prayer goes up for them & also us to keeping us safe
We read about young children losing their lives due to cancer even if the best treatment is given My heart goes out nto those who cant even afford one Tryinf to make them confortable is the only thing nleft & tryinf to grant the wishes if we can
There are so many small & big things one comes across Happy ones & Sad ones
It is all in the stride of a journey called LIFE
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