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Tuesday, August 13, 2013
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RIP my sister my dear akka -Vollakki
21/06 /1930 to 13/06/2013
TO Sunil &Karande family & the Bhatt family
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RIP my sister my dear akka -Vollakki
21/06 /1930 to 13/06/2013
TO Sunil &Karande family & the Bhatt family
thx for informing re ur mom demise as son as u could
though this is expected to happen to all I personally prayed & thought that GOD give a chance to 'come back ' though for a short time to know that vishwanath had come to see her
anyway I believe that she must have come to know abt it & was very much at peace so she 'let go' almost soon after
she had seen her daughter too & u & chandu bhai was always there
I am glad i came when i did in Feb -for her to recognize me is a reward for me of the goodness of her heart & the love & affection she had for me since i was a kid[I really believe this]She was always there for me when i needed her to depend on
I can not say this honestly where my other elder siblings r concerned
She WAS a ICON apart from every one
though i was just 5-6 yrs when i decided to be a doctor I believe in my heart that it was she who i was trying to follow I was a 'happy go lucky 'kid& seeing me she wrote to me that [this is when she was in medical college & we had shifted to Allahabad from Shrilanka] She wrote to me that i should not do do medical as i am not serious & do not study & not hardworking
this 'spurred up' something in nme & I said to myself =how dare she tells me thus while she herself is studying to be a dr' IF SHE CAN THEN I CAN' & I took up the challenge Many a times I know /think that this is the kind of feeling/challenge she wanted to spur in me!! & was very successful!!
she will always be very dear & next to my heart as long as i live She has been a elder sister with no comparison
May Her soul rest in Peace
it is very sad to know that she is no more on this earth but I an very grateful to GOD that she was taken very gently & peacefully = as she deserved
She will always live in my heart -as long as my heart beats
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Thursday, June 20, 2013
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to Ring the Bell-crime against women
to ring the Bell we need to Bell the Cat
How do we go around doing this ? to me it is 'to Catch 'em Young Both boys & girls -at the earliest -
right from their earliest education treat then both as equals in every aspect No segregation into boys & girls sitting separately in the class All tasks to be equally shared -Not this is for boys & this is for girls as the
the boys are supposed to be stronger so this is for them & the girls are supposed to do this as they are not as strong & are more delicate EQUALITY should be the KEY word for both sexes right from the very beginning.
they should grow up as equals
Sex education too right from the earliest -according to the age & the understanding at that particular age
As they grow up more details -how to be a gentleman & a lady How the gentleman should treat ladies Basic civility cordiality ,respect for each other behavior towards each other
The home is the first school so the parents also should be involved In our country this is a difficult task as there are so many do's & don'ts for boys & girls also the cast system & still the 'untouchability factor , kids grow up with. this Yard stick before they enter school; So each year when the parents are called to school for parent teacher meetings some of these things should be discussed & also to tell about how their kids are being directed to grow up more mature to help the society
all schools should have a parent teacher association where the teachers & parents can interact & jointly find ways to improve the children & ultimately society
So thats why I think catching them young is very important at a younger age the impressions left r 'unconsciously forever imprinted on the mind & remain in the subconscious for ever
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to Ring the Bell-crime against women
to ring the Bell we need to Bell the Cat
How do we go around doing this ? to me it is 'to Catch 'em Young Both boys & girls -at the earliest -
right from their earliest education treat then both as equals in every aspect No segregation into boys & girls sitting separately in the class All tasks to be equally shared -Not this is for boys & this is for girls as the
the boys are supposed to be stronger so this is for them & the girls are supposed to do this as they are not as strong & are more delicate EQUALITY should be the KEY word for both sexes right from the very beginning.
they should grow up as equals
Sex education too right from the earliest -according to the age & the understanding at that particular age
As they grow up more details -how to be a gentleman & a lady How the gentleman should treat ladies Basic civility cordiality ,respect for each other behavior towards each other
The home is the first school so the parents also should be involved In our country this is a difficult task as there are so many do's & don'ts for boys & girls also the cast system & still the 'untouchability factor , kids grow up with. this Yard stick before they enter school; So each year when the parents are called to school for parent teacher meetings some of these things should be discussed & also to tell about how their kids are being directed to grow up more mature to help the society
all schools should have a parent teacher association where the teachers & parents can interact & jointly find ways to improve the children & ultimately society
So thats why I think catching them young is very important at a younger age the impressions left r 'unconsciously forever imprinted on the mind & remain in the subconscious for ever
Friday, April 12, 2013
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looking back at my seven decade plus there are a lot of good /bad & ups/downs like any other person.It is ones own perception that makes these as such It is like being perched high up or looking down from the window of the aeroplane & the ground looks full of ants But while coming down for landing miraculously every thing takes a gigantic size Life is such that from my perch at the moment to me I can see ants /& gigantic boulders where there were none at that given moment
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looking back at my seven decade plus there are a lot of good /bad & ups/downs like any other person.It is ones own perception that makes these as such It is like being perched high up or looking down from the window of the aeroplane & the ground looks full of ants But while coming down for landing miraculously every thing takes a gigantic size Life is such that from my perch at the moment to me I can see ants /& gigantic boulders where there were none at that given moment
Wednesday, January 23, 2013
Tuesday, October 16, 2012
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Speak 5 Lines to YOURSELF every morning:
1. I am the best.
2. I can do it.
3. God is always with me.
4. I am a winner.
5. Today is my day.
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Wednesday, October 3, 2012
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FOR AMMA
Today will be a decade since you left us But the scene of that night of October 4th about 9pm is so very fresh in my mind just as it is happening now I as on the phone waiting to talk to u as vonni told you about it I was anxiously waiting for your voice to come over -while all the time vonni was giving a running commentary of what was going on & then she said -you tried to sit up & then just fell back & was gone -just like that
I would like to think that maybe you were waiting to talk to me -what it would have -I only keep guessing.
when we reached home for the ceremonies -it was then that vonni gave me your letter -written that morning of 4th october to be posted to me .vonni had not posted it as You left on the same night & handed it to me personally about 10 days later
I came to know the details of what had happened before & after you I still wonder & will always wonder why vonni did not take you to the Emergency in the hospital when you were so breathless from the morning & just kept calling the doctor [janna's friend] who came only at 9pm--as if to just certify your death.You had enough money to your credit -which you never spent -i know all your life you had to be very tight fisted to make both ends meet & so till the very end you just could not open up.Me too am like that -tight fisted but thank GOD I have learnt to open up a bit since the last couple of years .Better late than never.
When i think back I am glad that I was able to take care of you for many years since & after i went to UK -financially & physically
The last few years -we had a Hate -Love relationship -due to misunderstanding -sorry to say about monies re preethi & what she had given you as a lump sum -which she got from her MIL while here i was slogging away & giving you /helping you financially from the time i was earning -my hard earned money -very unreservedly & happily This amount which was given to u was a lump sum which you[neither me] ever saw together .You were so impressed by this that you seemed to forget all that i had done for you in bits- me being a normal human being -was very much disillusioned & hurt- since then you started belittling me comparing me with preethi I could not tolerate this-thus started the hate -love thing
now when i put myself in your place realise that you were getting forgetful - & i am sorry for all this I did apologize to you when you were leaving Manipal for the last time But this will always remain with me till i come to join you
Heaven & hell is on this same life & we reap as we sow -I do firmly believe in this I got my dose of what you felt from my own daughter on 2 occasions It hurt me to no end especially me who always gave all my time love foregoing things for myself money to my children while i always only gave to you Anyway this was Gods way of showing me how you felt I have forgiven my child but i can never forget- also thankful to her for giving me/teaching me how it could feel to be treated this way I think I have reaped as i have sowed -but to be honest not fairly But anyway some insects also gets crushed in the grinding mill while flour is ground to perfection I am rather grateful to my daughter to make me realize this No regrets but will never forget
As told a mother treats her children equally I think this is a myth as each child had his/her own problems & the mother nurtures the one more who needs her attention love may be the same but outward behavior is not -this is according to the need of each child
Now i understand you more Amma but really sorry for not being able to tell you so I am sure where ever you are u would have already understood.
I will always be indebted to you whatever you have done to me -I know it was your best under the circumstances.
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FOR AMMA
Today will be a decade since you left us But the scene of that night of October 4th about 9pm is so very fresh in my mind just as it is happening now I as on the phone waiting to talk to u as vonni told you about it I was anxiously waiting for your voice to come over -while all the time vonni was giving a running commentary of what was going on & then she said -you tried to sit up & then just fell back & was gone -just like that
I would like to think that maybe you were waiting to talk to me -what it would have -I only keep guessing.
when we reached home for the ceremonies -it was then that vonni gave me your letter -written that morning of 4th october to be posted to me .vonni had not posted it as You left on the same night & handed it to me personally about 10 days later
I came to know the details of what had happened before & after you I still wonder & will always wonder why vonni did not take you to the Emergency in the hospital when you were so breathless from the morning & just kept calling the doctor [janna's friend] who came only at 9pm--as if to just certify your death.You had enough money to your credit -which you never spent -i know all your life you had to be very tight fisted to make both ends meet & so till the very end you just could not open up.Me too am like that -tight fisted but thank GOD I have learnt to open up a bit since the last couple of years .Better late than never.
When i think back I am glad that I was able to take care of you for many years since & after i went to UK -financially & physically
The last few years -we had a Hate -Love relationship -due to misunderstanding -sorry to say about monies re preethi & what she had given you as a lump sum -which she got from her MIL while here i was slogging away & giving you /helping you financially from the time i was earning -my hard earned money -very unreservedly & happily This amount which was given to u was a lump sum which you[neither me] ever saw together .You were so impressed by this that you seemed to forget all that i had done for you in bits- me being a normal human being -was very much disillusioned & hurt- since then you started belittling me comparing me with preethi I could not tolerate this-thus started the hate -love thing
now when i put myself in your place realise that you were getting forgetful - & i am sorry for all this I did apologize to you when you were leaving Manipal for the last time But this will always remain with me till i come to join you
Heaven & hell is on this same life & we reap as we sow -I do firmly believe in this I got my dose of what you felt from my own daughter on 2 occasions It hurt me to no end especially me who always gave all my time love foregoing things for myself money to my children while i always only gave to you Anyway this was Gods way of showing me how you felt I have forgiven my child but i can never forget- also thankful to her for giving me/teaching me how it could feel to be treated this way I think I have reaped as i have sowed -but to be honest not fairly But anyway some insects also gets crushed in the grinding mill while flour is ground to perfection I am rather grateful to my daughter to make me realize this No regrets but will never forget
As told a mother treats her children equally I think this is a myth as each child had his/her own problems & the mother nurtures the one more who needs her attention love may be the same but outward behavior is not -this is according to the need of each child
Now i understand you more Amma but really sorry for not being able to tell you so I am sure where ever you are u would have already understood.
I will always be indebted to you whatever you have done to me -I know it was your best under the circumstances.
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